Things a guy should not say to a rape/sexual assault victim:
- I don't know why this happened to you. Most girls have experiences with guys forcing themselves on them, but nothing more ever happens.
- I don't know why this happened to you. I have tons of lady friends who have had guys push up on them. They just say "no", and the guy stops.
- I don't know why this happened to you. It must be the type of people you choose to hang around.
Just sayin'.